Why I Hired My OWN Coach!
By Guest Blogger, Corey Jahnke
For the longest time I resisted hiring my own coach. I thought: ”I am a coach. I know all of this stuff. Why should I hire someone to “teach me” what I already know?”. But then I remembered that “teaching” is not what a great coach really does. I read in one of Harvey Mackay’s books that he has 18 coaches. After studying successful people I learned that the best of the best ALWAYS have their own coaches and mentors.
What is a coach? A coach is someone you hire to:
- helps you design and implement your success plans.
- become an objective pair of ears to make sure your plans are sound and doable.
- be a positive advocate who ENCOURAGES you and TELLS YOU THAT YOU CAN!!
- look for opportunities to promote you and helps you to promote yourself.
- keep you focused on staying positive and helps you maintain forward momentum. And,
hold you accountable for taking action and garnering results.
I decided that if Harvey Mackay could have more than a dozen coaches I should hire at least one. I set out on a quest to find the perfect coach and I found Sherry B. What Sherry does best is keep me centered on living a life of appreciation and thus keeps my momentum at full tilt. Below is an example of her follow up:
Hi Corey,
Great to talk to you yesterday. I always appreciate your energy and enthusiasm. (Hey! Put that in your ledger of appreciations!!!!)
Way to go on finishing your opt-in document and on keeping to your schedule last week. Also, I loved what you said about doing just one question on Saturday before work and how they kept you engaged and connected. Really brilliant.
Commitments:
* Keep a ledger of happiness/appreciation moments. Right after you have a great interaction, say at work, jot it down. Remember what Rick Hanson said in Buddha’s Brain: “The brain is like velcro for the bad things and teflon for the good things.” Our job is to reinforce those good moments!
* Hold this question daily in your mind, “Who do I need to become to make it happen that I become Brendon’s Master Trainer? When we talk next week, let’s talk about what this looks like as a plan for the next year.
Extra credit:
* Write this down: “My big fear is life getting in the way of me getting where I want.”
Then underneath it write three proactive things you will do each week to ensure this doesn’t happen.
* Email me once and tell me one of the things in your appreciation ledger.
Thanks, Corey!
Talk to you Monday December 3 at 7:30am.
Delights,
S.
WHO DOESN’T NEED SOMEONE LIKE THIS IN THEIR LIFE??
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Bio:
Corey Jahnke is the author of “We Are Not Here On Rehearsal” and the creator of SuccessEqualsValue.com. Corey is a John C. Maxwell certified success coach AND a Bob Burg certified Go-Giver Coach. Corey’s company, Legend Crafters, helps people go from stuck to unstuck, from unstuck to remarkable and from remarkable to legendary. Will YOU become a legend?
Links:
www.coreyjahnke.com
www.SuccessEqualsValue.com
www.facebook.com/cwjahnke
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Sherry B. sounds like an amazing coach. Thank you for sharing some of her coaching nuggets with us. I love the idea of an appreciation ledger that keeps you focused on the great things in your life. I’m a great believer in focusing on what you love—it attracts even more love and good things in your life. I also like her approach on focusing on what you need to do or action you need to take to achieve your goal while overcoming your fears. Great advice.