Wouldn’t It Be Nice If

Have you found yourself wanting more money and wanting to be in better health but not getting more of either? Does this sound like you, “I’ve been wanting this for so long, why hasn’t it happened yet?” Most people aren’t aware that every subject has two subjects, what is wanted and the lack of it. For example, many people talk about money, but they are focused on the lack of or not having enough money. So you find yourself feeling and habitually thinking about the lack of and not having enough money and those thoughts push money away.

So when you say, “I want this thing to happen that hasn’t happened yet, you are not only activating the vibration of your desire, but you are also activating a vibration of the absence of your desire.” Abraham Hicks This is why things don’t seem to change for you. You keep getting the same results and you do not understand why you keep getting what you are getting. It’s like playing a game and not knowing the rules. You think that the law of attraction does not work for you. But actually it’s working perfectly, just not in your favor.

Even when you do not speak the second part of the sentence and only say, “I want this to happen,” there is an unspoken vibration within you that continues to hold you in a state of not allowing your desire. In other words, because you’ve been focusing or noticing the lack of having what you want for a period of time, you are getting exactly what you are focusing on.

For instance, if you have been wanting something for a period of time, and now you find yourself saying, “I’ve been wanting this and wanting this and wanting this, but it still hasn’t come,” now you are focused on the not having what you want and by the law of attraction, getting it. Focus activates the law of attraction. How you feel at any given time is your point of attraction. That’s why it’s so important to ask yourself multiple times throughout the day, “how do I feel, what am I thinking?” This brings you back to the present moment and enables you to determine your current state of attraction.

If you are thinking or feeling good, keep thinking thoughts that make you feel good. If you are thinking or feeling negative, be thankful that you have become aware of the negative thoughts and now start thinking positive thoughts.

So when is a good time to use the ”wouldn’t it be nice” process? When you find yourself thinking something negative or offering resistance and you want to turn it around to thinking something positive. When you are already feeling good and you want to focus on specific areas of your life to make them even better. Or when you are having an argument or in a challenging situation and you want to promote a negative or potentially negative event or conversation to a more positive place for your benefit or to benefit someone else.

For example, wouldn’t it be nice if I found the most spectacular life partner that adores me as much as I adore her or him? Wouldn’t it be nice if I find someone with similar likes and desires and we drove off into the sunset together? Wouldn’t it be nice if I had a really productive day at work? Would it be nice if all the lights go green on my way to work and traffic is light? Would it be nice if I could reclaim the body weight I had when I was in high school?

When you say, “wouldn’t it be nice if this desire would come to me?,” you gain a different kind of expectation that is less resistant in natural. Resistance comes in the forms, such as you thinking that you don’t deserve or that you are not worthy to have your wants and desires. By posing this question to yourself, it naturally evokes a more positive, expectant response. So by playing this game, it causes your feelings to move up the emotional guidance scale to a more positive emotion and improves your point of attraction. This naturally puts you in line to receive the things you’ve been wanting.

This process will help you let in the things you’ve been asking for on all subjects. “The reason the wouldn’t it be nice game is so important and powerful is because when you say, wouldn’t it be nice if, you are choosing something that you want and you are being soft and easy about it.” Abraham Hicks In other words, there is a low attachment which reduces resistance and allows you to have a higher expectation to receive what you want.